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bstarr

Question:do you believe people come into our lives for a reason

it's easier to see a break up as a positive cog in the wheel of life if you believe we're meant to meet certain people in order to learn something, even if it's not always meant to last.

Asked by bstarr on 2/18/08 1 Answer»
ridder

Answer:

Yes. I am a true believer. However, why would it not last?

Answered by: ridder on 5/8/08
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