John Mayer's Magnetic Confidence

Say what you will about John Mayer, but the dude has dated a lot of good looking women. The “Your Body is a Wonderland” crooner has been linked to Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Vanessa Carlton and now Jennifer Aniston. So, how does he do it?

His easy listening counterpart, Josh Groban, explained the appeal of his long-time pal to People magazine. "He's got a ‘tude that I have to try and learn how to get. It's that 'I may talk to you, I may not talk to you,' kind of thing," he says.

So, it’s all about confidence.

Even though you may not have hit singles, know how to play the electric guitar or have access to hip Hollywood parties you can still work on your confidence level. The next time you walk into a room and you're looking for love, keep in mind all of the great qualities you have to offer a potential partner, hold your head up, and if all else fails tell everyone your new song will hit iTunes next week. [People.com]