That's true, but you still have to be in a position for that to happen. I know a lot of people who stay at home and look for love online. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's nothing like being out there in person for people to see you.

TRUE I change public swimming pools because I bumped into a boss I didn't like at my previous pool and at the new pool I got chatting to this life guard on a regular basis I never though much about it when she came into the sauna one day and asked me out I nearly fell off the bench.

i'd say so. the guy im in love with now i had known for two years before and seen and talked to him everyday. one day he takes out some chapstick and puts it on. it hit me like a truck "im in love with this guy". it was the most sudden realization ive ever had.