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Question:I am looking for info/advice for divorced couple considering re unification

What experiences do people have with a long married pair who have grown children and young grandchildren and are reconsidering their recent divorce. How do you regain trust? Overcome fear of being hurt again? Establish respect? Manage money? Protect assets?

Considering not marrying, legal agreement/contract,mediation

What are pro's? con's??

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