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The Sex Lives of Wives

If you’ve ever had the urge to peek into your neighbor’s window (admit it, you’re dying to) you know you want the results of this Cookie Mag/AOL Survey.

While women—especially those with kids—are always portrayed as worrying about their husbands stepping out, 34% of the 30,000 women polled revealed that they’d had an affair and over 50% had thought about it (guys, if it makes you feel better, they’re thinking about it with George Clooney and Barack Obama…so you’re probably safe for now.)

So what steps can couples take to improve their sex lives? Well, experts say communication is key, but we hear a little fun never hurts. If you’re open to it, you can try role play (as 17% of those surveyed did), watch porn (23% tried that) or just spend some time together doing things you enjoy! After all, remembering why you fell in love can help you keep things in perspective when things get a little tough and your mind is prone to wander! [PR Newswire]

Posted: 5/2/08