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princess1976

Question:my boyfriend said he wanted to wait until he was sure he was with the one he going to married but yet during one of our dates things got real heated where we did everything except sexual intercourse the only reason why it didnt happen was because we were

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kristen

Answer:

Hmmm. Sounds like the age old challenge of thinking with your head vs. thinking with your libido.
The question here is, what do you want? Is it important for you to wait until marriage?

Answered by: kristen on 9/22/08
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