Ok, I'll do my best. Back in April my youngest, age 19, texted me and said he was moving in with his girlfriend and Mom. Not a situation or decision I thought he would make so soon. He works PT but the Mom gave the green light that he could live there for $25/wk! I said what I could at the time but his mind was made up about moving out. I had to let him go. The next couple of months were hard for me. I felt sadness about what happened. I didn't feel the "freedom" I thought I would feel when my boys left home. I realize it is a transition and will take time. My question at this point is what do I do know? I own my own home, finances are limited and I am not currently in a relationship. I want to find a direction for myself but don't know what direction to head into. I work a FT and PT job so that keeps me busy. I try to fit in things that make me feel content and happy each day. I still feel like something is missing in my life. I want to make a change but an uncertain what change. Is this a normal stage to be in at this point of my life? I am 51 years old and have been divorced for 14 years. I have no immediate family nearby. That doesn't help. I have friends I can do things with but they are as busy as I am. Many times I come home to an empty house which is starting to bother me. I do have a cat. I was watching my son's dog and realize I cannot have a dog as a pet. They need too much time and attention I do not have with my working schedule. Overall, I am still searching for my direction. Looking for tips, suggestions and ideas. Thank you.