You attract what you put out into the world. Be aware of your feelings so that you're bringing yourself good things!

Sure, it's great to get input on life's critical decisions. But if you're looking for someone to tell you what to do every step of the way, maybe it's time to start looking inward a little more.

We know many of you are out there wrestling with your 2009 resolutions (did you not read our tips for success yet?) and frankly, we'd like to help. Start slow! Baby steps, people.

There are things you can control in life and things you can't. It helps to be able to identify which are which so you can let some things go.