He called her 34 times. All together in less than a month there were 54 calls to each other. Once this was revealed he said the were just friends but denied it in the beginning when confronted. He says he has cut all ties, but my trust has just been violated. I can't stop thinking of the what if it was more. I think she is desperate to find a man and thought it was more as well, she cried when he told her not to contact him anymore. I learned this from her myspace page when she has a prayer to God about sending her a man. He's agreed to go to counseling, he's trying for the most part, however, if I ask questions he tends to get upset. He did move out briefly when this all happened. I need to know how to get over this if possible?