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springshine
Answer:Speaking as someone who always went with the attraction piece and failed to find a true friend, I have to say that being with someone who loves and...
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Sactokaren
Answer:Make a list of things you really appreciate about your spouse and then try to thank you or compliment him when he exhibits those traits. Set the stage...
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Answer:I have heard that but rather or not it is true i could not say...If you are having problems with desires you need to just stay calm & write down your...
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