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SomethingTimeless
Answer:I believe what you're referring to is a psychosomatic, physical manifestation to stress/sadness. It's the same thing as when people break up, and during...
runnindownadream
Answer:I think you can still "have it out" but it doesn't necessarily have to be a scene. Just say that you don't agree with his behavior and that's that...
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aliciak
Answer:Do you mean you can see yourself married to this person, but aren't ready yet? Is the other person ready, you think? Maybe you need a cool-down/break...
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Brenda Della Casa
Answer:Dear Musskokagal: I am so sorry you have had to go through the pain and agony of having someone you love say those words to you and mistreat you...
kristen
Answer:I had to do this recently, and it wasn't as hard as I thought. Sometimes we carry the expectation that others will be broken by our moving on when in...
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lostinlove
Answer:Hi Bratnee623, Well i'm no expert, but it sounds like your guy has been hurt before and he's projecting his insecurities on to you. If he hasn't...
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VictoriaB
Answer:Wow, that's a tough situation to be in. I love the idea, though, that you're putting something back together. If you're serious enough to be considering...
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