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kuroamurai
Answer:I think it's because a lot of guys don't want to appear desperate. But, I don't feel that you can make a snap judgement for all singles events, based...
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lonewolf
Answer:From my point of view and I'm guessing most blokes are the same regardless of age - a geniune sense of humour, good conversation and I don't mean complaining...
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lindad14
Answer:I don't think it's weird at all. Some people aren't into marriage - look at Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. You can still spend your life with someone...
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aliciak
Answer:Wow that's a tough one. I feel like the physical chemistry issue is such a big deal! I mean, I know plenty of people who have waited till marriage for...
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aliciak
Answer:Yeah sure! If you're feelings aren't like the romantic ones you're used to like you say, then I guess it's possible! On the other hand, sometimes romantic...
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NicoO2000
Answer:I think I'm definitely in the persuing category right now. Aren't guys always the ones doing the chasing? I think I've only ever had one girl come after...
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runnindownadream
Answer:Well, its been over a week and he hasn't made an effort to hang out again so, NEXT!
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