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Forseer
Answer:Before I commented I went back and looked at your orignal question. And I have to say how very proud I am of you that you had the strength to do what...
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Answer:I'm sorry that you had to go through this esthechica. It was a selfish act on his part. And as alicika said, some guys just go silent because it's easier...
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VictoriaB
Answer:Hey, KatieQ I'm sorry to hear about what you're going thru. I know that can't eat/can't sleep feeling and it stinks. Time seems suspended and you...
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aliciak
Answer:I would talk through things first, figure out why he cheated (does he have a history of this?), before making a decision to get back together or not...
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runnindownadream
Answer:Ugh! This is the eternal battle, isn't it! It seems like every time a guy calls and is interested in me, he turns out to be a stalkery weirdo, but when...
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haifa1235
Answer:he seems to treat you like a child and he doesnt seem to respect you at all. he is very insecure maybe he thinks your going to have an affair thats...
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Answer:A very touching story ciara. As the others have said, it's normal for you to still feel for your ex. He was there for you and helped you through a very...
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