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MJ Acharya

MJ Acharya

Author, blogger and healer of broken hearts

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Mike Riley

Co-author of How To Heal A Broken Heart In 30 Days

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Melissa Kantor

Author of the young adult novel The Breakup Bible

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SomethingTimeless
Answer:QUESTION (AGAIN): Thank you, thank you, thank you for the advice and information!!! This is easier than starting yoga, beginning to see a therapist...
marah2448
Answer:You will have to step away and give it time. When you broke if off with him(a man - they take break ups alot harder than you/us(women). If he is allowing...
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veartwani
Answer:Hello My name is veart(single). I was impressed when i saw your profile today at and i will like to establish a long lasting relationship with you...
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aliciak
Answer:Do you mean you can see yourself married to this person, but aren't ready yet? Is the other person ready, you think? Maybe you need a cool-down/break...
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runnindownadream
Answer:I think you can still "have it out" but it doesn't necessarily have to be a scene. Just say that you don't agree with his behavior and that's that...
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SomethingTimeless
Answer:Well, what I'm hearing you say is that you believe you have feelings for this guy still, and you're compartmentalizing them in efforts to maintain regularity...
SomethingTimeless
Answer:I believe what you're referring to is a psychosomatic, physical manifestation to stress/sadness. It's the same thing as when people break up, and during...