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MJ Acharya

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Anonymous
Answer:I have taken breaks. From my experience, they don't really work. You miss the person all the time. You feel you can be a better person in the relationship...
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VictoriaB
Answer:It's hard to know why people break off relationships, but I do people get scared sometimes, especially when things are moving quickly. I don't know...
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ridder
Answer:Yes. I am a true believer. However, why would it not last?
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ErikaM
Answer:I'm a big fan of email breakups. My Ex boyfriend recently broke off with me over email (we've been dating for 8 month). I was actually glad that he...
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k8epl1
Answer: I think it depends on how much time has passed. If its' pretty recent, I think it does make it harder to move on, especially if you have secret hopes...
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Anonymous
Answer:You are human and you will feel pain. The intensity will vary with time but as long as you consider the breakup as an end rather than a beginning it...
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