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aqua222
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How does one be on the own when they never had to be alone?

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onesweetapple
Answer:Hi, I know what you are going through. I am 39 years old, and I have panic attacks. They used to be much worse and I was housebound, then I became stronger...
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Anonymous
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How do i break off totally?

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emd1121
Answer:Ugh...........been there very recently. I left him 5 months ago and we were still hooking up. I then found out that he had a girlfriend and she was...
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Anonymous
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Was it really me? I am beating myself up for not seeing the signs or...

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kristen
Answer:Tracey, it's always easy in the aftermath of a breakup to wonder what the other person is doing/thinking/feeling. I'm proud of you for NOT contacting...
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NMTO35
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I feel like I am doing the right thing by breaking..

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STARRSHINE
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WHY IS BREAKING UP SO HARD TO GET OVER

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emd1121
Answer:Me too Cheryl. That's what he was TOXIC. Not sure if he was cheating on me, but I literally took care of everything for him. He's been texting me...
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flybutterfly
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Why is it that every time you think you are over it, he tells you something...

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frobby52
Answer:Because you haven't let go completely and time will heal that. I understand what you are going through, I am in a similar situation. As long as I don...
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dollydgf
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How to move on with my life?

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GiniMaddocks
Answer:I recommend 2 books: Eckhart Tolle's, Awaekning to Your LIfe's Purpose and don Miguel Ruiz', The 4 Agreements. This is your opportunity to awaken...
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